Nollywood veteran Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, renowned for her iconic film roles and enduring marriage to Captain Matthew Ekeinde, recently shared intimate details about her nearly 30-year relationship.
During a candid conversation on Chude Jideonwo’s live podcast, the veteran actress revealed the highs, lows, and faith-driven principles that have helped her sustain a healthy marriage since 1996.
She spoke about the realities of her marriage, acknowledging that even in a loving relationship, tough days are inevitable.
There are times when I look at him and I’m not in love. I go to God and report him,’ Omotola stated, her words infused with a mix of sincerity and humor. ‘I honour him not because I’m head over heels in love at that moment, but because I honour the One who gave me the mandate to be with him.’
‘There are times I look at him and think, ‘Somebody please remind me why I married this man.’ And he probably feels the same way about me. Those days come.”
Her honesty was relatable, revealing that even in marriage, moments of doubt, fatigue, and distance are inevitable. Omotola further urges couples to embrace their humanity, saying, “ I think the problem is people trying to be fake. Relax, it’s not that serious. Remember you’re a human being.”
Omotola also admitted that there are times when she is attracted to other men, adding that it is a dose of realism that few public figures dare to share.
She said, “There are times I see guys who look ‘fantabulous’ and I say, ‘Oh child!’ But you check yourself.”
